Memories of A Father to His Son / Mama Sumalinog (mother)
We have a chat on the phone with Papa Benson Sr. last night,one of the topic was our son Benny, Papa Benson was asking about theold dog of Benny the one in the picture Totsie, if it still alive,then he remembered when there were in Savannah,Georgia,2002 they were together for a few weeks in the ship for my husband finished his contract.I could feel the cracking of his voice,they were having a dinner in a little restuarant near the sea owned by an ex captain of the ship Filipino, he has a dog white German Shephed, and no one could even dare to go near the dog,it was only Benny, they were surprised because as if they were an old friends,Papa Benson Sr. said Benny was a lover of Dogs,yes I agreed with because when he was around our dogs would like to play with him,barking and very niosy,Benny was playful fellow, That was the first and last bonding of his father and Son,I know even if they little time they shared it was biggest joy in their life that no one can erased that memories.
Thinking of your family Benson / Rosemary Sis Of ^j^ Alvin Cremeans
Rosemary xoxo
Hour Prayer / Mama~j~benny Sumalinog (mother)
dear friends, I would like to share this Hour Prayer,for our love ones.
Dear LORD, THIS HOUR I GIVE TO THEE FOR ALL MY PAST O PARDON ME, I KNOW MY SOUL MUST SOON DEPART, SO HIDE ME IN THY SACRED HEART TURN TO JESUS,MARY,TURN, CALL HIM BY HIS DEAREST NAME, PLEAD FOR THE HOLY SOULS THAT BURN THIS HOUR WITH IN THE CLEASING FLAME.
if you memorize this prayer and repeat it frequently during the day you will find ,it give you much comfort also for it is a pray to protectyou at the moment of your own death. from FOSS.
I WANT TO THANK YOU,MY PRECOIUS BENNY,FOR ALL YOU'VE GIVEN ME... AND LET YOU KNOW THAT ONE OF THE GREATEST GIFTS OF ALL IS THE JOY THAT HAS BEEN MINE EVER SINCE THE MOMENT I FIRST HELD YOU IN MY ARMS.-Deanne Laura Gilbert
~Thinking of you..~ / Cheryl A. (Mother to Precious Angel John Armore )
Please accept my most heartfelt condolences ~ My Angel, John, was also 26 when he received his Angel wings and I am most positive that your Benny and my John are friends in heaven~such a warm feeling.
THINKING OF YOU WITH LOVE, BENNY~STAY SO CLOSE TO YOUR MOM AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ARE ONLY A BREATH AWAY~SWEET DREAMS ANGEL..... XXOOXXOO, CHERYL
TODAY/ Mama~j~benny Sumalinog (mother) I woke early this morning for I have some commitments to do,I ended up almost 2:00pm with a prayer service at cosmo funeral parlor because one of husband member of our community died, a co-member of the Divine Mercy said, there will be a washing of the feet in St.Jude Church around 4pm so we attented the mass,at that time when my son died, Holy WEEk was approaching,recalling the HOLY THURsDAYS same as today, but the date was not the same , I remember my son Benson jr. who at that time, we were waiting for nothing for I was told that I will be receiving information every now and then the whereabout of my son, but I was waiting for nothing,this was the hardest time or very crucial agony I have incountered I could not decide what to do, full of mixed emotion some friends mocking, putting me down calling on a phone giving suggestions that made you hurt,the right word was" CONFUSED" if I going to have a 9days requim mass because the Big 2 WORDS "WHAT IF"was behind on at my back" what if" he cames home?"what if " he is alive,so on and so forth.... when the washing of the feet in the mass I remembered then , about my son death,during my silent agony I asked Him please Lord and also to Benny, give me a sign the truth behind his death, the answeredof my questions was after he was laid of his final day,one week after I dreamt loud and clear that He told me,MAMA i'm ok here but some one shrunk my head in to the water ,until I could not breath and he told MAMA I never commited suicide,and I believe in him,for, Benny knew how I suffered of his loss and A year after his death I dreamt again I saw him a distance in liminous white so radiant, this is just an intervention of him to make me feel at peace,there were many dreams but this was the most revealing incident of him.when holy week comes it recalls the death of BENSON JR.
Thinking of you Benson and your family / Rosemary Sis Of ^j^ Alvin Cremeans
Thinking of you Angel Benson and your family on this very difficult day. I know that they are hurting so much. So please be close to them tonight and hold your mama tight. Let them feel that your love is still with them always. love and prayers, Rosemary sis of ^j^ Alvin Cremeans
Benson thinking of you & your dear family today xxx / Delia Allan Tomlin's Mum
Angel Days are tough. / Marguerite Ward Mom To Angel Brandi (Angel Mom )
Three years of my angel Benson jr / Mama~j~benny Sumalinog (mother) As I said time flies so fast like a swift of the wind,we only say goodbye but the memories clings in our heart and mind always,I miss you dearly.We love you. In this page I will like to thank you all my friends whose been so generous in putting beautiful graphics and endearing words that makes me feel warm and comfortable to be with,I may say I am blessed to have you friends in spirit,though I may not know you, but I feel the sincerity you done for my family,this lighten my burdens in my life,this is one way how I get my strenght, you made me strong and make day my brighter, this make me see, that life is so wonderful to live,having friends across the miles,so unbelievable but true,I believe that my son has done this too,I know he is very happy to have my friends like you,if ever I may not able to visit this page it doesn't mean I forget, you you are always in my heart friends,God bless us all....mary lee sumalinog
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Thinking of you / Teri Drebit (Jaime's Mom)
Dear Mary,
Thank you so much for visiting Jaime's website and lighting a candle and leaving a tribute...such a lovely gesture. I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Son and the numerous losses you have suffered. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, this journey we are on, is not an easy one. To lose a child is the most devastating loss and the pain is unbearable. I just want to let you know, you are not alone. I was glad to see you belong to Precious Memorials...I do not know what I would do without the support I have gotten from this group and so many others. Life will never be the same for us, for we are changed for life without our children. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless With Love, Teri (Jaime's Mom)
So sorry / Rosemary Sis Of ^j^ Alvin Cremeans I read your post on Precious Memorials and it broke my heart to read of so many losses especially in such a short period of time. I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers. Benny was a super person I can tell that, I know you are a proud Mama and you should be. If you ever would like to talk please email me through my brothers site at http://alvin-cremeans-jr.memory-of.com Rosemary --sis of ^j^ Alvin Cremeans
Happy Birthday and belated anniversary.
time flies to fast / Mama Sumalinog (mother) Benny Remember always you are always in my heart.Time flies to fast next week will be your 3rd year death anniversary, I still rings in my ears our last conversation in my cellphone your voice I can still hear clearly,"I LOVE YOU MA,"sweet to hear I hoping that I will dream of you again,Papa also lone for you very much,you know him well he is a silent person but I feel his heart,He may not be with us on your day but I know that you will have a big portion on his heart this day keep us in your prayers and also to those who have help you, and those friends who also lights a candles and make this portion possible, thank you to all who made this things for Benny, God bless you always.Mama MAry Lee Sumalinog.
I like to share a little how my son benny was,this was the last wake lastApril 24/04 at 8:00pm with Father Jack Walch who officiated the mass.Good Evening Father Walsh and to all of us gathered here tonight.You have made our sorrow bearable w/your presence.In the name of our beloved son Benson Jr. words are not enough to express our deepest sorrow for Benny's death. only unforgettable memories of Benny is left to us.His being lovable in his introvert ways.His special concern for us especially his 2 younger brothers Nikki & Jesse,And in his unique ways of showing his love,his favorite lines to me "INGAT MA."(take care,ma)"I MISS YOU,Ma."He is not so expressive w/his father who is often away from us.being an overseas worker,But he always wish him good health and everything best,he love to follow his father's footsteps as an overseas worker, for 4yrs,he traveled vast the oceans and last March 31/04 at 7am he died,at South Africa on their way to China.He had his last moments w/the whole family last DEcember 2003,and those were the treasures happy moment we shared w/Benny,God is so good for blessing us w/our eldest son Benny,26 yrs.is so short time to express our love for him.Forever shall we pray "To you dear Lord we commit the spirit of our beloved Son,Benny."To his friends,his second parents Susan & Domeng whom he dearly thanked and shows concern,I wish to express Benny's love for you. Please continue to pray for Benny,God bless us always. I will also thank Tessie Mendoza who help me and to,PI Timbol, Doc Papa,friends who been there from day 0ne up to the final resting place.thank you.
On your Birthday Benson. / Maria Zollo Angel Mum To Amore, Cara, Teressa &. Pieta ZolloSemmler
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Happy Heavenly Birthday !
angel Benson,
for you, your mum Inday and all who love and miss you so.
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